Saturday, September 10, 2005

死亡警號

史路比問 - 生命為何?
我不知道,我只知道 – 生命誠可貴,縱言前路崎嶇,不要輕言放棄!

根據香港大學研究及分析2003年死因裁判庭1264宗自殺個案，發現多達45％自殺者在生前曾向親友子女透露輕生意圖，當中七成更是在尋死當日、一周內或經常向身邊人發出自殺警號，主要傾訴對象就是至親的配偶、父母和子女。可惜都市人往往只顧工作，花時間與家人相聚少之又少，家長與子女的話題離不開學業，陪伴年老雙親時間亦不多，故即使至親已發出死亡警號，亦被忽略。

有問題時, 旁人若能及時主動關懷，甚至主動查問死念，加以協助和支援，其實很多悲劇是可以預防的。多點關心身邊的人, 加強溝通關懷和珍惜相聚時間。

- 45%自殺者生前曾露死意 學者﹕旁人及時關懷 可減悲劇 -
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11 comments:

Ruth Tam said...

There are also people who like to keep talking about committing suicide. After a while, there's nothing we can do.

9/10/2005 11:36 PM
梁巔巔 said...

只要知道每一次嘅低潮嚟到即係等於開心就會跟住嚟嘅話, 咁就唔會怕 ga la! 潮有漲退, 月有陰晴圓缺嘛. 唯有經歷過痛苦, 不開心, 讓悲劇喺自己身上誕生, 咁, 先會知道咩係真正嘅快樂.

簡單 oD講, 要體會過悲劇，了解知道了它, 那我們才可明白並享受到真正的快樂呢!

自殺?......好痛個喎~

9/11/2005 12:12 AM
史路比 said...

係呢,親人同朋友既支持係好重要架..

我自己就好怕要自殺, 細個既時候都諗過哂咩咩方法架啦,又怕痛,又怕核突,死,都係好需要勇氣架! 不過,我希望我唔會啦,因為我諗好好醜醜都要行埋佢..

我成日都自我安慰: 黑暗過後,曙光必現.. ^^

9/11/2005 1:16 PM
梁巔巔 said...

"細個既時候都諗過哂咩咩方法架啦"
....... -_-"

9/11/2005 8:12 PM
Hyacinthus said...

Ruth, we can't avoid others talking about suicide but we can keep us alert and prevent our close to loop into the trap. Trust it, suicide is an issue that can be prevented.

巔巔: 自殺?應該很痛的,痛的不袛是你一個人,還有你身邊個關心你的人,那種痛可以是一生的!

阿比:黑暗過後,曙光必現,這是很好的人生態度,要keep住,知無?做乜你咁早熟,細個時已諗哂方法啦?根醫學疾病分類,自殺方法可細分十種,而香港最流行的也不用的多說,天天報紙也可看見@@多點關心身邊人，好多事其實可以避免的　

9/11/2005 11:15 PM
Anonymous said...

Last nite, I told my friend that I want to die, not the kind of "want to die" that I gonna attempt suicide, just the feeling could be described as "want to die"....does anyone know what I mean?

9/14/2005 12:11 AM
梁巔巔 said...

carrie,
妳係咪mean只係好奇想探索吓死亡嘅感覺係點?

9/14/2005 12:50 AM
Anonymous said...

LDD, no, I mean I "want to die" coz I can't face the situaiton anymore. So the "want to die" is to describe my exhaustion, and helplessness.

9/14/2005 12:58 AM
Hyacinthus said...

carrie, tell you that you aren’t alone really. It doesn’t imply me having such thought but the fact is in one’s life time, the majority in the community have experience flashing deaths across their mind sometimes. It’s natural, don’t worry. However, some of them would develop their ideas into action and make an attempt to harm their bodies in someway. And the worst is some attempts end up death at the end. That’s particularly prevalent among people suffered from various kinds of stress or unhappy relationship, as well poor atmosphere in the community.

Life is somehow frustrating with lots of ups and downs. We have to treasure what we are and have while the ups period but at the sametime don’t give up yourself even a hard time staying long recently. It’s understanding that the feeling of exhaustion, helplessness, disappointment come up and hang around all the time. And you just got the feeling that cannot be even more.

Like what I have mentioned perviously, it may be a sign informing you that your body may sick in someway and you have it to take care. Have you thought about that you actually need a break or rest for your heart or have some environments change ? Or it’s time to listern your heart and where it heads to. Need a travel? Need a deep breath? Or just a sweet soup from mother at home?

Carrie, take care!

9/14/2005 11:26 PM
梁巔巔 said...

風信子,
寫得好好.

9/15/2005 12:34 AM
Anonymous said...

Thanks. I read this too. Love you girls, so sweet, so +ve and so caring!!! =D

And my blog switched to: http://cc-journey.blogspot.com. In the progress of uploading other old diaries of mine there. Feel free to visit.

9/16/2005 8:01 AM

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