Sunday, September 11, 2005

Why Women Cry

A little boy asked his mother,
"Why are you crying?"
"Because I'm a woman," she told him.
"I don't understand," he said.
His Mom just hugged him and said, "And you never will."
Later the little boy asked his father, "Why does mother seem to cry for no reason?"
"All women cry for no reason," was all his dad could say.

The little boy grew up and became a man, still wondering why women cry. Finally he put in a call to God. When God got on the phone, he asked, "God, why do women cry so easily?"

God said:
"When I made the woman she had to be special.
I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet gentle enough to give comfort.
I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times comes from her children.
I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up, and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining.
I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances, even when her child has hurt her very badly.
I gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart.
I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly.
And finally, I gave her a tear to shed. This is hers exclusively to use whenever it is needed."

"You see my son," said God, "the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart - the place where love resides."

15 comments:

梁巔巔 said...

因為女人天生係多愁善感. 女人哭, 並不是因為她們軟弱, 而是她們那濃濃柔情、那敏感的思緒是何等的澎湃, 一觸即發.

世上最勇敢的, 是母愛的那份力量.

仲有, 女人, 係水造的嘛~

Hyacinthus said...

巔巔: 你很了解女性 :)

Ruth Tam said...

I don't know. I just cry so easily.

Anonymous said...

I have no reservation to say I am a watertank. I cried so easily...a passage, an atmosphere, an advertisement...anything you can name it could make me burst into tears.

And recently, more often I cry in the middle of the night, no weep, no gasp of air, just tears keep running along my face to my pillow.

Ruth Tam said...

Carrie, what a coincident. I cry in the middle of the night too. I don't understand. I should be happy these days.

Hyacinthus said...
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Hyacinthus said...

carrie, thanks for coming here.

i do agree that some particularly women are easy triggered by emotion, sense or thing happened around and break into tears. Tearing is a way to to express their sensation either implicitly or explicitly and channel their suffering as well.

it isn’t a big deal if you have such pattern. However, you have to yourself care if something appears to be unusual. That may be a sign informing you somewhere go wrong. Give your mind and body a break and rest if you can. Take care.

Anonymous said...

Thanks a lot, Hyacinthus. You are a caring and loving person.

I also think that I need break, especially away from my work. Hopefully, I can get a better rest by October. Just 2 more wks to go. =)

Hyacinthus said...

carrie, i wish you are fine very soon and update me any good news here :)

note: i have replied you at the episode of warning sign as well.

梁巔巔 said...

風信子, 風信子哦~
咦, 妳好似好熟星座咁喎!

妳咩星座呢?

Hyacinthus said...

星座? 唔係好熟,只係皮毛!
我咩星座呢?你眼太大睇唔到咋 :p
你點呀?最緊要好玩既人馬座 :)

梁巔巔 said...

Heeeee~
Caught you! Libre!!!!!
Libre 最多靚仔靚女個噃; 而且 oD天秤人仲好優雅!
.....sorry, 好似有八咗少少.....

"你點呀?最緊要好玩既人馬座 :)"
最近 eating banana. ai.....

Hyacinthus said...

巔巔:睇來你對星座都有研究哦!
係呀,天秤人呀,優雅?還可以吧,大多數話我斯文得很!最多靚仔靚女?沒錯天秤可說是十二之冠,當然也有例外的,你唔好彩啦,我咪例外那個囉 :p

梁巔巔 said...

風信子, 風信子哦,
keee keeee, 有 oD料到咁啦! 妳都唔弱吖!

天秤同水瓶同雙子同人馬同獅子都好好呢!

"你唔好彩啦,我咪例外那個囉 :p"
哎唷唷, 咪咁謙~

Hyacinthus said...

哦?同道中人?好,搵日開個題談談星座 :)